Usually we grow up single, separate and apart from our SEX partner, or partners if we aren't serving in Monogamy. And when we finally settle down with our SEX partner, we're fully prepared and confident enough to take on the world armed with a job and enough knowledge about relationship development to make the relationship with our partner work.

Communication techniques may vary, for instance, all a guy may need to do is agree to SEX every time His partner's aroused, lol. There's an old joke, "How do you stop a woman wanting SEX all the time? Marry Her, lol" That's true if you're tricked or used as a skate-board when you are dating "Your Girl." And that's not fun, for example, a guy may spend His entire Adult life digesting guilt, shame, hot tongue, cold shoulder, verbal abuse and worse when He's in a relationship that's a trick on Him. Then he gets to wonder how to un-twist His life from a number of years of deceit, 'cos that's what it is, deception, and not a genuine 50/50 relationship at all.

'Talking Plastic' or 'Bimbo Nonsense' has become a blight on democracy, when democracy can be spelled out in 69 words:

1. People air their thoughts with intelligent freedom upon issues.

2. A consensus or reconciliation is formed upon the issue by as many people involved with the issue as possible under the circumstances.

3. The 'Affects' of the consensus are Policed (somehow) for Good, Bad or Ugly 'Effects' that emerge in society as a result of the reconciliation, and a determination is made upon how to correct the ugly effects moving ahead.

Finding a SEX partner isn't easy these days compared to 100 years ago when sexually transmittable infections (STIs) were rare & usually confined to wealthy European countries for example; so use condoms.

Take care, and please lead by example, follow with respect, be at home with yourself and keep your guard up, tell the truth, support your position, stand your ground and watch your back too, take care, be kind and enjoy life, it's its own reward. And please remember that there are only crimes and twists of fate : )

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